In my first article, I would like to discuss my feelings on abuse. Specifically child abuse. And how I wish everyone could have a normal family. When 2 people fall in love, they should both discuss on what they want in the relationship, and their plan on how to achieve that. They should not have kids just because that's the typical thing to do or because that's what everyone expects. Have them when you feel it is right and when you know you can handle them. Kids are a huge responsibility. My mom had 5 and she can tell you that it's not easy. My parents both agreed on it and made sure they had a plan on supporting us, raising us, and making sure we have everything we need. It upsets me that people just have kids and do not care about them. There are people in this world that are trying so hard to have children but cannot. And you take that for granted. Children are a very special thing. However, i am aware that they do not always happen on purpose. But it it does. They should own up to it and try their hardest to have it be healthy and happy. It is an innocent child and it deserves to be loved. It breaks my heart hearing stories about children getting abused. But let me just talk about the parents themselves. Sometimes marriages just don't work out. They aren't perfect. But lets be honest: what relationship is perfect? None. if you choose to have a divorce then that's on you. But do not bring innocent children into the situation. Do not kick them to the curb and say you never want to see them again. You're the adult and need to act like one. You should be protecting them out of all people.
And I would just like to take a minute and rant about how the police handle this. They just come in, and do not even bother listening to the child's side. They are obviously hurt and although they are very young, they have a voice too and it should be heard over all the rest. They think that the child is too young and the parent says that the child is the problem. So who takes the win? The abusive parent. Why are the police just listening to the adult and saying that there is nothing they can do? If the child sas they are scared to go in the home because they may strike again why not take them out of the environment and put them in a better one. Why are you just allowing that child to sit and suffer as if in jail. All they wanted is love and a loving family that they could look up to and know that they are always there no matter what. Now instead, they look back on the abuse, the yelling, the fights and so on. What did they ever do to you? It doesn't matter how frustrated you are or how angry you are at the world. You need to make sure your children who YOU bought to this world have a good life and everything they need. They should be your priority and not your stress ball. How is an adult just going to hit a child? Let alone watch someone hit your child. How sick are you?
I can only imagine what the child goes through having to go through that. What message are you giving the future. That fighting beating and yelling is the answer to everything? No. you should teach them right and give them an example of how to achieve that so they can go on teaching their future children. I just can not believe how sick some people are to do that. Obviously the child would not be able to defend themselves as well because they are so young. Doe sit give you satisfaction causing harm? And then they say the kid is bad, when they are the one that created this entire mess. They are the ones that need help. The police should really listen to the children s. It doesn't matter what race, how old, how tall, nothing. They should be heard and taken away from this situation and not have to wait and have it happen again as if it's a cycle. This is not the life children should live. And it only gets worse as they grow. If you have problems with the child get it help. If you are hitting a child for no reason, what are you doing with yourself? Is this how you want to be remembered? Just know what you are doing and what you are creating. It is you who decides your life so make it abuse and problem free. STOP THE ABUSE.